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  • StudioBrooklyn

    Hah yep you got me!

  • Diesel

    Buzz off shill. You don’t represent the community and you claims of “wanted by the neighborhood” is a baldfaced lie.

  • redlola

    as i christian moral majority legislators block gay rights bills, i thought of this conversation. i think the only jews who proselytize aggressively as the ones in your family and thank god they are only doing it to you not from the halls of government, on subways, and in countries all over the world. btw– i have plenty of christian and muslim friends who have the conversations you describe — difference being, for some it is not only a conversation. if they don’t follow the script, they may not live to tell about on the Brooklyn Heights Blog.

  • redlola

    i further find it fascinating that anyone who jumps to a conclusion about who creates problems in the park (based on what has been news reports to date) is instantly branded a racist, yet jumping to conclusions about these pamphlets without even reading them based on a narrow set of personal familial experience is somehow ok. nothing like a delicious cup of hot hypocrisy in the morning.

  • DIBS

    OY

  • StudioBrooklyn

    I mentioned people in my family earlier to illustrate the difficulty of having to reconcile challenges to one’s identity from people one is close to–but I don’t want you to get the impression that there is a large quantity of people in my family with whom I have this laborious conversation. It’s more like two or three people, with whom it’s come up on occasion. I get along very well with my family. :)

    Now, you make a point which I’d put under the umbrella of “well at least you can talk and think freely about the things that upset you without being imprisoned or executed”. And I’d say, yes, for everything that troubles us someone else has it worse, so we should keep that context in the back of our minds. But if an attorney used that argument they’d probably find themselves without a job pretty soon.

  • StudioBrooklyn

    Hey listen first of all I have NEVER accused anyone on this blog of racism, over their reactions to the park issues or otherwise. I’m not sure if you ever read my comments or if you just react to the first several words but I’m very sympathetic to the people who have concerns about the park.

    Secondly, I glanced at the pamphlets left on my door (see the photo! That’s all I saw; the pamphlets were DESIGNED to look like they came from a Jewish group) and made the connection to another Jewish group that approaches strangers with religious messages. I didn’t say anything antisemitic. I might as well have seen an ad for a Lexus and thought I’d seen an ad for an Acura.

  • Concerned

    So now you have a problem with the Japanese???

  • StudioBrooklyn

    Not if they respect the basketball courts when they’re smoking weed in our public schools

  • redlola

    Um an attorney would never use that argument hence the only one who suggested it was you. You are quite the artful dodger though. You have yet to address the myriad points of actual and aggressive attempts by groups other than jews to personally and legislatively shove their morality down the world’s collective throat. instead, you seem fixated on harping on a couple of personal experiences you have had with your family members. That is the point I was making along with the paraellels i see in your logic or lack thereof. At the end of the day, ignore facts all you want, but do not take the huge liberty and leap of trying to manipulate said facts to fit your narrative with some strawman umbrella you wove in your brooklyn studio.

  • Edwin

    “I can also say with a good amount of certitude that every religious
    person, every believer, started out as (essentially) a secular atheist
    at birth and was indoctrinated at some point.”

    What are you basing your research on?

  • StudioBrooklyn

    I didn’t say I’d done any research. :)

    But I’d say the burden of proof is on those who would argue human beings are born with a sense of religious identity or spiritual dogma. What we have, evidentially substantiated via the scientific process, are the facts of our biology: we’re mammals, we’re prone to certain group behaviors and learning tendencies, and those in turn do create a conduit for religion and spiritual belief as we’re exposed to them, but they’re not part of our DNA.

  • StudioBrooklyn

    “Um”

    I’ve addressed every point you’ve made. You accuse me of making straw man arguments, again failing to point out why you think my summary of your point was inaccurate or inapplicable. You pepper everything you write to me with ad hominem attacks and remarks.

    My arm’s getting tired from holding an olive branch out to you every time we have a discussion, redlola. If you don’t know how to respectfully disagree with people and carry a conversation like a grown-up, please stop wasting my time by responding to my comments.

  • redlola

    since you like to qyote, please show me any point in which you addressed my copious examples of how other religions are way more organized and focused on proselytizing. you seem to keep harping on the jewish thing without acknowledging that to the majority of the world that is the reality. as far as ad hom attacks, you are the master at passive aggressive remarks like your insinuation about attorney arguments. when you point a finger outward, there are four more pointing back at you. i will continue to respond whenever i wish. feel free not to engage.

  • redlola

    very interesting points. thank you.

  • StudioBrooklyn

    The bulk of this conversation we’ve been talking about the nuanced differences between inter-religious proselytizing and in-group identity reinforcement, and I’ve given personal anecdotes to illustrate my thoughts on the matter while you lob vitriol in my direction. Fun!

    Redlola, it’s not fun. I don’t want to be enemies with you.

    As for your assumption that my remark about a legal argument is passive aggressive, I just want to tell you that you’re projecting here. I made that remark hoping it would illuminate common ground and help you see my point, since you’ve said you’re an attorney.

  • StudioBrooklyn

    Re “show my any point in which you addressed my copious examples…”

    See my comment yesterday beginning “I think the crux of it for me…” in which I tried to articulate to you the nuanced differences I mentioned above. If you’re just asking me to acknowledge that other religions proselytize more than Jews (as in, try to get people to convert or tell them their beliefs are wrong) then that’s a point I can totally accept, but not a fact that bothers me on a personal level because, as I said, it’s not a challenge to my sense of autonomously-formed identity.

  • StudioBrooklyn

    I’ve heard that certainly personality traits can be passed on genetically, as can “stress”. And this makes sense; it’s brain chemistry (i.e. physiognomy), and that’s in our DNA. But beliefs? Non-phenotypical group identity? Those things have to be taught.

  • Andrew Porter

    I read the BHB on my computer. After seeing really annoying pop-up ads while reading the NY Times on-line (despite paying for a digital subscription) I downloaded an Ad Blocker. Problem there (and lots of other places) solved!

  • Andrew Porter

    This stuff has been going on as long as I’ve lived here, on my block and everywhere else in the Heights. PS: No relation to “AndyHeights.”

  • Andrew Porter

    All this discussion without once mentioning the soon to be departed Witnesses? I am stunned.

  • Andrew Porter

    I think this sums everything up nicely:

  • Andrew Porter

    Same people, different corporate name. They’re no longer under the same ownership as the P&P in DUMBO, haven’t been for several years. Atlantic’s fruit and veg place is indeed wonderful.

  • Concerned

    LOL!!!!!

  • Teresa

    Except that you’re denying revenue to the websites that you want to read for free. I know that pop-ups are annoying, but something has to pay the bills.

  • AEB

    And what I hate is when I’ll-call-them-proselytizers because for all intents and purposes the phrase fits–come up to me and say, “Are you Jewish?”

    I have the same it’s-none-of-your-business response–and resent the fact that I’ve been picked out, which comes under the you-know-too-much-and-too-little heading. (OK, I’ll stop with the compound phrases. Already.)

  • skb

    Thanks, Andrew! I’ve considered talking to the management there about providing better produce that’s priced well. I think it would do their business good! Enjoy the day…

  • StudioBrooklyn

    I think someone did mention them…but really, they’re pretty mild. They never approach people or yell. Just sit and smile. Like people manning a table at a trade show.

  • Andrew Porter

    I also pay to read the Guardian. Most blogs I contribute material that others may find useful and/or interesting, so am increasing the value offered. I also forward links, increasing readership. So, where’s my gold star?

  • Banet

    I have an ad blocker on my iPhone. These aren’t pop-ups. These are some sort of ad that redirects the entire webpage to a new URL. In the hundreds and hundreds of sites I’ve been to on my iPhone going back to the very first phone in 2007 this is the only site that has this problem. I suspect it’s not actually an ad causing the problem but some sort of Malware that go onto the server running the blog.