Please be advised

Neighbors:  Please be advised at approximately 9:00 p.m. tonight as I was walking home on Hicks between Montague and Joralemon I was accosted by a gang of four boys, approximately 14-15 years of age.  I am certain it was a gang initiation [unlikely says NYPD – HF].  The same thing happened to me five years ago in Cobble Hill.   A young man said, Miss do you know what time it was— I stopped and the next thing I knew I had a gun to my head; with three others lounging in the shadows, laughing.  This time when they asked me what time is it, do you have a cigarette, why won’t you stop and talk to us, I just kept my head down and kept walking.  At the corner of Joralemon and Hicks, I saw a cab.  Knocked on  the window, and said, call the cops.  When the police arrived of course the gang was long gone.  But I put them on notice.  Told them what happened.  They said, you’re not giving us much of a description.  Whatever.  I was safe.

Update:

When I posted Please be advised last night I knew there was potential for error/confusion since I sat down to write the post after a long 14 hour day.  Even though I was exhausted, still shaken, I believe and still do it was my responsibility as a good neighbor to put everyone on notice.

I will now attempt to clear up any confusion:

This is my third experience with gang violence in Brooklyn in ten years.  I know what it looks like and I know what it smells like.  And because I have always trusted my instincts, I have always walked away unharmed— physically.  The first time was on an R train, coming up from Bay Ridge.  Four or five teens, aged  anywhere from 14-16 years old, got on the train, began swinging from the overhead bars, and at a pre-arranged signal began beating everyone up.  I kept my head down and wasn’t harmed.

The second time, in Cobble Hill, I was walking on Baltic between Clinton and Court.  It was about 7:00 p.m. on a Sunday evening, same time of year.  A teen asked me, Miss what time is it? Because I stopped to oblige, I had a gun to my head before I knew what was happening. He demanded money and jewelry.  I saw three other teens on the periphery, laughing and whispering.  I stayed calm, was completely respectful to my attacker, a child, and kept repeating that I didn’t have money or jewelry.  This was true.  I had just thrown a coat over my pajamas to buy milk at the corner store on Court.  If  had money or jewelry I would’ve gladly handed it over.  But I didn’t.  After a few minutes, I said, I’m leaving now.  Turned my back and slowly walked away.  Later the police said this was the wrong thing to do.  My reasoning: he had no reason to shoot me b/c I was giving him enough time to get away.  And I did.  The police informed me this was a gang initiation ritual.

Present day.   In addition to my usual course load at Lehman College, I teach a class in the South Bronx.  Everyone has been put on notice because this is Blood’s initiation week [Editor’s note: this is a well known urban legend].  Because last night was parent/teacher conferences, and I finished at 8:00, the school called a car service for me.  Instead of going all the way home, I got out at Montague to pick up some groceries.  I turned left down Hicks Street; weighed down with a book bag, a regular bag, and a bag of groceries.  At the corner of Remsen, on the periphery, standing just off the curb, in the street —were four teenagers, same age range.  One of them asked me, Miss do you know what time it is?

My instincts told me: Danger.  Baby-bangers.  Gang initiation.  Keep walking.  Don’t look at them.  They followed me: Miss, what time is it?  Miss, can I have a cigarette?  Miss, why won’t you stop? At that moment, I saw no one on Hicks.  But I knew I could get out of this if I stayed calm.  Kept moving.  At the corner of Joralemon, a cab stopped.  People inside were paying their fare.  I walked right into the street on Joralemon, knocked on the window, and said, Call the cops. Now.  The people inside, a young couple who have just moved here, complied.  I stood right there in the middle of the street, even though cars were honking and drivers were pissed. Too bad.

The woman handed me the cell phone and I spoke to the dispatcher.  My new neighbors whose names I’ve forgotten were kind enough to wait with me .  Thank you.  The police arrived about five minutes later.  I couldn’t give them anymore of a description b/c I didn’t stop long enough to look at them.  I trusted my instincts, learned my lesson from Cobble Hill.  Don’t stop.  Don’t look.  Keep moving.  The police said, You’re not giving us much to go on.  Yes, true, but I was safe.

I continued down Joralemeon, saw a father with two children, I told him what had just happened.  I saw another, man, Ernie, a neighbor, and he gallantly walked me home down Willow.  What a shame.  Too terrified to walk down my own street.  Too terrified to take my dog out for a walk.  But at least this time I was smart.  This time I spared myself the ordeal of another gun to my head.  I am 100% positive that had I stopped I would’ve been seriously hurt.  Again, I know what gang initiation looks like and smells like.  They want you to stop.  Ernie, a former military man, agreed.  Thank you, Ernie.

This all happened between 9:00 p.m. and 9:30 pm,  last night.  I walked in the door, sat down at my laptop, and wrote the post for this blog.  I would want you to do the same.  I would want to know.  And now you do.

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  • 6floorwalkup

    I just wanted to say that it’s SOOOO Brooklyn Heights-y that the comments stopped at 10:42pm on a Friday.

    Except for me, of course.

  • AEB

    And a gold star to you, 6thfloor, for being up at 1:27! Really, quite the accomplishment!

  • bornhere

    Are you for real, Conrad? Those websites are scarier than the event that generated this thread.

  • Ilikebrooklyn

    I scanned the responses to this post and perhaps someone already commented on why the ‘gang’ or someone wanting to harm/steal from someone would ask for the time. If someone is wearing a watch they would look at the watch and expose what could be valuable jewelry (or a desired cell phone/Blackberry. I was jumped while in college DC in the mid-70s. It’s not fun.

    Thanks for warning us to be careful — I am often alone at very late hours on the streets mentioned.

  • bklyn20

    Actually, I did NOT miss the fact that there was no gun involved in Lillian’s latest incident, although perhaps I should have made that clear in my post. I read in one of the local papers that there was a mugging at gunpoint on Joralemon St at Sidney Place a few weeks ago. And whatever happened to the gentleman on crutches who was pistol-whipped on Pierrepont? The police had a license number — update, please? I recall a few others, but unfortunately I don’t have the time to look them up now.

    For the posters who cry “racism!” — no one has mentioned the race of the kids. Kindly park your soapbox in another arena.

    People simply need to be aware of the incidents, report them to the police (and maybe here as well) and follow up on said incidents. In my experience, the police tend to placate until things get serious, but I hope it doesn’t get that far.

  • soulman

    Wow – there really are a lot of sicko, reactionary bastards on this list. To Gauleiter Konrad, I’d love to meet you on a dark street one day, preferably one with a large garbage can where trash like you belong. Or perhaps on Staten Island 50 feet below the top of a waste pile would be a better location for your remains.

    As for many the rest of you – Brooklyn Heights is a remarkably safe place to live. I walk my 29lb border collie (there’s a clue) at night in the park and down many of these not-so-mean streets every day. While we’re not quite the gated, guarded community many of you aspire to, the picture painted by a pathetic, paranoid minority is given the lie by the amount of men and women who use these streets at all times of day and night. Yes, stuff happens, but statistics and experience don’t lie. It’s not only very safe, it’s safer than it’s probably ever been. So, my friends, remember to take your meds and stay home unless you can afford the Blackwater guards you most surely need.

  • MadeInBrooklyn

    Bring back the MSB who used to hang out on Montague and Henry (and at the Court House), in the ’80s and kept the neighborhood safe and save all the St. Ann’s kids from getting mugged.

  • soulman

    That should be “live amongst us”.

  • nabeguy

    When asked why he robbed banks, Willie Sutton had a simple answer… because that’s where the money is. So how does a well-heeled community such as BH maintain such a low rating on the Comstat charts? Is it because the 84th precinct does an exemplary job of patrol? Well, other than the one car that stations itself outside of Fascati’s, I’d say no. Is it because the criminal element looks at the liberal demographics of the populace and decides they’re just too tough to handle? Hardly. The single most important factor that keeps us safe is our connection to each other as neighbors, regardless of the myriad ways we define ourselves. So let’s all watch out for each other and keep using this site as our virtual block association.
    BTW, tourists are especially vulnerable, so let’s not turn our backs on them, even if they drive you crazy by asking for directions to Grimaldi’s or the esplanade.

  • http://selfabsorbedboomer.blogspot.com Claude Scales

    “Esplanade”? Is that what it’s called in the Hungarian phrasebook?

  • Bewildered

    Almost a year ago I was assaulted on Boerum and Livingston at 10pm on a Saturday night. A group of about 8 teens beat me and robbed me, leaving me with a broken jaw and cuts and bruises. I have not felt the same since. I think the warning may not be necessary to some people, but when those people are on the business end of a beating they will change their minds. Thanks for the warning.

  • willow street

    thanks for the warning. it’s always good to be reminded to pay attention.

  • ABC

    that Bloods initiation thing is very much a rumor. hasn’t that been going around for 15 years now? I’m not sure why people keep falling for that one.